5.03.2009

Love Does Not Exist

That crazy feeling you get when you are around someone. "Complete" as some put it. Or how you can't seem to get enough of that specific food. How a certain song makes you happy, or just speaks to your current issues. And we call all of that love..

It does not exist. Love is simple a humans excuse for not being able to control themselves. It is imagined. They don't want to stop eating, and they claim love. Thy can't stop listening to that song, and instead of calling it a natural high, like it is, the say love.
But let's not forget that special someone. "It's simple. Love." No it's lust. It's not wanting to be alone. It's enjoying a conversation. They are replaceable. It hurts, because you miss the familiarity. All in all though it is not that thing you call love.

Love is a noun. The dictionary calls it "a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person or object."
Over used. Meaningless. Cliche. I'm guilty of it. I say I "Love" something, but in the end I know I don't. The actual action of loving is impossible, because we will forever want something else. Never true satisfied.

Now is when people will think "Not me. Mine is true love".
Love is supposed to be forever and never stray. So if straying, even if just in thought, it vetoes love. And if they did, by chance, return to that specific thing, it was only out of comfort. Not love.

But if that is too depressing to think about, continue to love. I have no objection. I simply wanted to share my opinion.



This isn't necessarily my thoughts. Some of it could be, but "No love" isn't a very blissful idea. However I did want to make this into a speech for next year's season. Tell me what you think.

2 comments:

john joe smith said...

Wow talk about hmm can't think of the word right now.
Love is real but it is not an emotion like most think. Real Love is a decision. It's a decision that once made can't be revoked.
But I guess that is just my opinion lol

jsanderson said...

i think this would make a very unexpected speech, deffinately not the average, and we live happily ever after, i think after hearing it a few times though i could be persuaded to maybe consider that love is not real. although i'm pretty set on falling in love and marring my mr. right, i believe being in love is a powerful bond that God created for us, so i don't doubt that its real, but i have never even considered myself to be in love, i am patient to wait, and maybe i'll never get to expierience love, but i have seen it. i believe it, but i do agree that we say we love something and we don't, thats dumb, if you're going to say you love something,there has to be truth. i know i've done it before though, just not to a person.
but thats just my opinion. :)